GUYS: Do you have that special someone you like? The girl that you want to ask out, but don’t have the guts to because you are afraid of rejection?
1.) Find her at school where she will be with a friend or two.
2.) Remember that place and go home that night and figure out what you want to say to her.
3.) The next day, go to the place and time you saw her with a friend or two yesterday and walk up to her.
4.) Ask if you can speak to her alone because it’s important.
5.) She will most likely say yes, which is a good thing.
6.) Tell her how you feel. Let her reactions come naturally. If she looks shocked, it could mean that it’s a happy shocked and that she can’t believe that you are telling her this… don’t try and explain yourself to a reaction she had. Just let it flow. If it wasn’t meant to be, then try again later (i mean a couple of months later)
GIRLS: Do you wish that the guy you like would just come up and ask you to be his girlfriend?
1.) Slip a note in his locker or send him a text telling him you wanna meet up. If you are choosing the note option, don’t put your name on it, let it be a “secret admirer” to him.
2.) Give him the place you wanna meet up at and the time. Leave it at that. Go to the place at the time that you told him, but don’t expect him to be there waiting for you. Most likely he’s going to be sitting in his car somewhere looking in that direction, waiting for a girl to come by. He most likely isn’t expecting you to show up. If you two are really close friends, most definitely he’s not expecting you (unless you texted him, then he knows it is you).
3.) When you get to the place just stand there and act casual. If it’s at some sort of cafe, sit down at a table in the corner, and wait. Don’t go to the place you told him to meet you at, that might make things difficult to explain.
4.) When you see him walk through the door, don’t motion for him to join you. Let him figure it out on his own. Most likely he will go to where you told him to meet you and wait, probably glance around him to try and figure out who it is he was supposed to meet (unless, like I said, you texted him. Then he’s going to be looking for you.)
5.) When he sits down, or stops and stands, don’t rush up to him right away. Wait a couple of minutes and gather your thoughts and what you are going to say.
6.) When you feel semi-not nervous, go up to him. Tell him how you feel. Tell him you’ve felt this way for a long time, you just wanted to let him know, and that you hope he feels the same way. Once you say that, just start walking away.
7.) If he goes after you, he really cares and wants to tell you how he feels. If he doesn’t come after you, he could be nervous, in shock that you actually told him, or just plain down shy to go after you. If you reach the door before he actually comes after you, then you know that he’s either shy, or doesn’t care enough to come after you. If he reaches you before you reach the door, you’ve got a really high chance of ending up in a relationship with him.
MAKE EVERYTHING COUNT. DON’T WASTE ANY TIME JUST STARING AT HIM/HER AND TALKING ABOUT HIM/HER. TAKE ACTION. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT MIGHT COME OUT OF IT IF YOU DON’T TRY, SO MAKE EACH DAY COUNT AND FIND OUT.